Print of You · the sixteen axes

Warmth

a bonus ←→ central for me

That they're warm and reliable: a nice bonus, or the thing that matters most to you?

Hearing you out when you're low. Remembering some small thing you mentioned in passing, and coming back after an argument to finish the conversation. Where does “warm and trustworthy” actually rank for you? Nearly everyone calls it important, so we don't ask whether it is. Instead, twelve forced trade-offs ask the same question in different ways: when you can't have everything, which one do you refuse to give up?